Why Asian Women Marry Foreign Men: Vietnam, Philippine, Thai & Chinese Brides



Why so Asian Women marry foreign men, mostly from other Asian countries?

In Asia, a man may not attract a bride if his income or assets are too low or he works in a rural setting. For example, hundreds of thousands of Taiwanese men mary Vietnamese virgin brides.

 

These brides marry with no common language, large age gap and meeting for only a few hours. They do this to fullfill their duty to support parents. The men can’t attract woman at home but their from a poorer country.

 

This same tradition is found in the Philipines, Thailand and most of Far East. In the Philipinese, Thailand, Vietnam and much of the far east, the metrics of marriage may include:

  • support of Family, (may be arragned)
  • Children for future retirement
  • Spouse to enable goals & duties
  • Romantic love if you are lucky

Pyschologists say love consisys of three matrics:

  • Passion (infatuation & lust)
  • Intimacy (knowing & liking)
  • Commitment (support)

In “modern” Western relationships, couples expect to have passion, intimacy and commitment before marriage.

 

However, in “traditonal” ans Eastern cultures, marriage often precedes Love.

 

The “Triangle Theory” of Love can be graphically depicted as follows:

Triangle Theory of Love

Evolutionary psychology reveals that monogamy is not nature. It waw not an evolutionary advantage for women to put ‘all her eggs in one basket’.

 

Nature intended women to seek a new masculine man when she is ovulating and a new more ‘supportive’ man the rest of her cycle. To match this dual reproductive ‘strateg’, men evolved to have as much sex as possible.

In ‘traditional’ cultures, marriage is a job description to support family and rise children. Romantic love is icing on the cake for those who hope to “learn to fall in love.” Should love be considered synonymous with marriage? Marital failure rates are unacceptaly high by any ethical standard. State laws on marriage need reexamining as the stigma and costs of divorce are too high.

 

In Eastern relationships, traditional roles and responsibilities are often more important than passion or intimacy. The couple must endure hoping to “learn to love” the other.

 

Marriage is fundamentally to support family and to raise children which will support the couple. Most will not marry into a lower economic status if possible.

 

Divorce laws in the West enanble Eastern women to fullfill their goals to family back home and provide for their children without staying married. When a Western women seeks a man for enrichment and divorce, she generally must pick a wealthy man. But Eastern women can pick a man of more modest assets and go home to live like a princess or petition family members to move overseas for employment.

 

Monogamy is not how humans lived for many thousands of years. Psychologists used to tell people that monogamy was “normal”, now they admit it is unnatural. With greater personal freedoms, longer life expectancies and high marital failure rates, the “tranditional” religious views of marriage, chattels, dower and patenity are being questioned. As god(s), myths and social norms, perhaps a more logical view of love will emerge.

 

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Why do Foreign Men Like Asian Women ?



Foreign men merry with Asian women

 

       Asian women have a fascination for Western men, which may include these reasons.

 

       First,  Asian women are more dutiful toward their husbands traditionally. They regard their husbands as their older brothers, as their sons and take good care of them.

 

       Asian women are taught to regard son as more important than themselves.

 

       Second, Asian women still have a traditional feminine virtue. They continue to support their husbands and look after their children. To many Asian women, the home and the family are still most important.

 

     Third and last, Asian women still are more exiting than Western women because familiarity breed contempt. A foreign visitor only meets most Asian women in their homelands; therefore, he knows little about them and desires them for what he’s seen. The above reason help explain the stimulation of Asian women for the foreigners.

 

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!!!Online Dating!!!

Finding the right person to date has never been a simple task, sometimes no matter how hard you try there is always a feeling, that there is someone out there just for you that you are not able to find. Finding your right half consumes lots and lots of time and money. Welcome to the world of online dating. You no longer have to search someone special through your friends circle, just log on to a online dating site and you are ready to go to find your better half. It is reverse kind of phenomenon, in which a person understands one’s aspirations and expectations via internet and finally decides to meet in person. 

Online Dating

There are many benefits that glorify this concept. Anonymity is the first and foremost benefit that online dating provides you. You may hide your vital information including contacts, address, surnames and so on. This provides you a freedom to know the person better without a fear of being revealed. You may choose to be anonymous if you wish to until you trust a particular chap. 

 

Security, moreover, is other benefit which invites ladies for online dating whole heartedly. No more you need to fear unwanted person to disturb you and interrupt your search for a right match. In case someone gets on you, you may block him and continue with your search. Just logging onto a right dating site can get you access to millions of prospects to go through.

Just a few words regarding your online dating venture:

 

    * Don’t be half hearted and get ready for risk bearing. Not all ventures go 100% successful, hence, it is important to prepare yourself for some let downs. Be sure what you want and get a through research work done before actual dating.
    * Spoil yourself. Treat yourself with good and new clothes and get some shopping stuff that relaxes and you and provide better confidence then ever.
    * Decide in advance the reasons you are dating for. Be sure, what you want from your partner and does the search satisfy your dating goal. Be sure if you are seeking for nice companionship or you are seeking for a life partner or so.
    * Boost up your confidence before going for any sorts of date. Attending social functions and getting along with your friends would surely enhance a positive aura around you.
    * Decide the meeting place in advance. Be sure, the place to be public enough. Although night clubs prove to be a bad idea for meeting for first time. Obviously you would not like to scream into ears to get your views conveyed to your partner. Choose a place like a coffee shop that proves to be ideal to talk to.
    * Most importantly, enjoyment is the key for dating. After all this is the reason you are dating for.

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