This is your sixth part of "9 Simple Rules For Dating Russian Women".
Rule #5 was to don't questions her intentions.
Russian women have a different definition of success than western women - for them, being successful means to be married to a worthy man, create a cozy home and bring up good children.
Without a husband Russian women feel their life is incomplete. Russian women really want to get married! This is why they are ready to leave their homeland behind - NOT the other way around!
Now that you know the real reason why Russian women seek partners abroad, it is time for the Rule #6...
Rule #6. Show her YOU are for real
As you want to be sure you are talking to a real woman, a woman wants to be confident about you!
She wants to know that you are serious about meeting a life partner from another country.
She does not want an Internet romance or a pen pal; she wants a real relationship, and eventually marriage.
This is the ultimate reason why she ventured into the search for a partner abroad!
Every woman has certain fears connected to the search for a husband abroad. Women's biggest fear is that she will spend her time, emotions and effort on you, and it will end in vain.
You will understand why, when you learn the sad statistics: only 5% of men writing to Russian women ever go to Russia to meet them!
It means, if she corresponds with 20 men, only ONE of those men is likely to visit her!
Now you understand why the woman needs to be confident in your intentions before she invests her time and emotions in you.
You must address those fears and demonstrate that you are ready to go through the whole process. She will rather choose a modest guy who is for real than a great guy who seems too good to be true.
There are also other fears that women have about men who are writing to them - are they really what they say they are? Aren't they unemployed, mentally disturbed or sexually unfit? Aren't they looking for a sex slave or cheap maid?
Just like in your country it is mostly horror stories that make newspaper headlines, in her country media also publicize shock stories about girls marrying foreigners; bad news sell the best!
You need to show the woman that you are a stable, serious, honest and reliable person.
And remember, actions speak louder than words! Words alone are not enough, and may be even harmful, for Russians believe he who speaks the most is the one who is doing the least.
Don't just tell her that you have a great sense of humor - demonstrate it! Make her laugh!
Don't just tell her that you have a great sense of humor - demonstrate it! Make her laugh!
Don't just give her the facts - give her also the benefits coming out from from those facts.
All women are emotional by nature. They go with feelings. You must be able to wake up her emotions and ensure she has strong feelings connected with your image. Only if it "feels right", will she fall in love with you.
She needs to make sure you are her Dream Man. Without it, she will not leave her country and family behind and move to a strange country to live with you.
Prove her that you are her Dream Man, and she will be yours!
Rule #7 Is On Its Way Tomorrow!
hope you enjoy your subscription.
And don't forget...
There are 3 more "Simple Rules For Dating Russian Women" coming soon!
Sincerely,
Elena Petrova
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