There is no formula for dating success. However, there are many ways to improves your chances for success and fun. You can learn about relationships by watching other people. Maybe you have a friend who seems popular. What does he or she do to make friends? Chances are that your friends talk with new people.
Look at Yourself
Teens who want to date or just make new friends should try to make a good first impression. You probably from an opinion of someone the first time, you meet that person. Likewise, the first time, a new person sees you often shapes his or her opinion of you.
To make a position impression, check yourself out in the mirror. Is your hair clean? Have you brushed your teeth? Have you bathed? Those basic grooming habits do make a difference. When you are well groomed, you feel good about yourself and that shows.
Next, think of how you look when you walk down the hall at school. Do you smile and say hi to people? Or do you slouch and stare at the ground to avoid looking at people? Many teens feel unhappy with their looks. You may not feel comfortable with every part of your body right now. However, you can work on feeling comfortable with yourself. For example, you might try smiling, even if you hate your braces.
Some teens try too hard to make a good first impression. Every head in the room does not have to turn when you enter. You do not have to say or wear outrageous things. The most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself.
Look at the Person You Are Attracted To
You may know someone you think you would like to date. How do you know if the two of you should date? To answer that question, spend some time finding out about the person. Is he or she nice to friend? How does he or she treat other people? You may no longer be interested once you fide out how that person treats others.
Think about why you are attracted to a certain person. Are you interested mainly because of how he or she looks? Relationships that are base on appearances are usually shallow. Healthy relationships need to be base on more than looks.
It help to listen to what other friends think of person you are interested in. However, it's important to be completely swayed by hearsay. Try to get a feeling for yourself about what someone is like. Then think about why you are attracted to that person.
Talk With the Person You Like
The best way to get to know someone is to talk with that person. Talking will help you discover what the two of you have in common. Does the person you admire, seem only to care about football? If you do not care about sports, you may decide that person is not for you. What kind of music does he or she like? You may find that you both like the same bands. Going to a concert together could be a nature idea for a first date.
Often teens get crushes on other but are too shy approach them. Sometimes to take courage to talk with a person you like. If you like someone, you might try these strategies.
- Strike up a conversion with the person.
- Practice thinks to say before approaching the person.
- Try out lines at home. Rehearse alone in front pf the mirror or with a friend. The more you practice, the more comfortable you will become talking with potential date.
- Make eye contact. It help to look a person in the eye during conversation.
Some people think the hardest part of conversation is getting started. You might start by asking people how they are doing. For example,
ask a classmate how he did on the history quiz. Ask the person whose locker is near yours what she did last weekend.
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